Be very sensitively attuned to the company you keep as you ascend to Harmonious Twin Flame Union. If you are around people who don't believe in your Twin Flame connection or who are in separation from their Source, you are more likely to experience vibrational interference with your intuition.
This love is sensitive and not made for an emotionally shut off world. You may open yourself up to psychic interference and misdirection when you hang out with people who believe Twin Flame separation is real.
The False Light Twin Flame community
You can get thrown off course if you deal with the existing "twin flame" collective. Almost all of the current information out there on Twins is parasited and misleading. I've watched over the years as most real Twin Flames went in one of two directions:
1) Into greater authenticity and presence, and firmly away from the limelight AND the "twin flame" community
2) After reaching a certain level of unity and ascension, they would stagnate. They would then become dissociated and delude themselves further as a veil was pulled over the third eye...and eventually enter separation even if they had previously been in Union and very "high vibrational".
The real ones don't stay in the limelight for very long, and there are good reasons for that.
The entire twin flame community is insane and trapped in a false light. The coaches are frauds who are vampirically feeding on people's delusions and wounds, as are the "angels" and "masters" they are channeling to make money.
Most of these coaches are not with their real Twin Flames, because real Twin Flames cannot deal with that community. Once enough healing has happened, true Twins leave that wider community because they cannot be a vibrational match to such a parasited and degraded consciousness. Being part of that wider community can destroy real Unions.
So real Unions either eventually leave the twin flame collective, or they stay there out of lingering greed and fear...and get destroyed.
I've seen it happen many times.
It has made me sad to see some previously inspiring Twin Flame teachers fall prey to their own delusions after a while and become thoroughly numbed out, dissociated, and no different from the transcendence-focused patriarchal paradigms of enlightenment that the Twin Flame path is supposed to be an antidote to.
The Underworld Gates
This is not an airy dreamy path of golden sky palaces and radiant violet light emanating from a body in perfect asana. This is not the path of premature unity consciousness before fragmentation, division and grounded human turmoil have done necessary work. This is not a path of denial and spiritual bypassing.
This is a path of the gut and the sex, the womb and the tomb, the erupting volcano and the rich volcanic soil that creates new land.
Twin Flame ascension is an embodied path. A human path of realization without any magical specialness, without any pretenses of perfection. It is the humblest love imaginable.
It is also not what you think it will be. The Twin Flame template that my Twin and I have is NOT what the mainstream TF community is teaching, and awakening to that has been a mindfuck on many levels. Most of the accepted ideas about Twin Flames out there are derivatives and reversals of the Truth. Or at least, the Truth of our Twin Flame template.
Every step of the way, I see yet again how different our Twin Flame path is, and how the distortions and reversals of the false light twin flame community and its many, many "teachers" would always, inevitably, lead us not only into separation but into spiritual destruction.
Be very careful about the company you keep as you walk this path, because literally everything out there is partially misleading.
Even worse, there can be dangerous psychic interference and sabotage if the "teachers" are unconsciously invested in sabotaging your Union out of their own greedy desire for your energy. Yeah, that's a thing.
Parting Ways Before Reaching The Hidden Gate
At some point you may need community, we all do. I needed Twin Flame friends at one point, and that was certainly way better than compromising and hanging out with people who secretly hated my Twin Flame connection and envied it.
But even with my dear Twin Flame friends, a sacred division happened. Where we tried to walk together on similar Twin Flame healing journeys, the unpredictable Beloved erupted between us and said no, you part ways here.
And my friends and I, though we still love each other, are now walking completely individual, mutually incompatible paths. We couldn't walk back into the Garden of Eden while still trying to hold onto each other, anymore than we could with our Twins.
The mystery unfolds differently for each one of us. Harmonious Union is as unique as the Twins experiencing it.
By allowed the great Beloved to split us apart, my Twin Flame friends and I were saved from spiritual dogma. We were saved from unconsciously giving our power away to each other. We were able to let go of a trap that would have blocked us from our precious private truths.
There is no received truth or communal revelation in Twin Flame spirituality, and most of what's said about it is distorted trash. Even if you have been part of a Twin Flame community for some time and it helped you, it's important for you to discern when it's time to walk away and do your own thing.
I cannot emphasize this enough: your Union is not like your friends' Unions. These are not ordinary human relationships, they are Unions that each hold a fragment of God. Each Union is healing something in the collective consciousness and is totally different from all other Unions.
You are calling in big energy. Each Harmonious Union is literally a castle with its own kingdom, and when that's birthing everything else falls away from your reality. Including your dear spiritual friends who are on their paths to their own Harmonious Unions.
And you have to break free from the herd to find this hidden treasure that is your Harmonious Twin Flame Union. The community that once supported you can turn into a cage, blocking your growth. Because at some point you'll realize that all of the teachers, even if they appear to be in real Union, unconsciously want your energy and can't fully accept that the God in you is different from the God in them. You'll realize that all twin flame communities are stuck on getting their hands on the physical counterpart. On obsessing over another ego-driven human being. Even in the twin flame communities that talk about inner work, this codependency inevitably pops up.
At that point you will realize that your real desire is Union with the inner God, and this twin flame community wants you to worship an external God and external twin flame dogma that the community has come to rely on.
You must follow another way and it is only Her who can lead you there. She will not reveal this treasure before prying eyes. You cannot access the Hidden Gate guarded by Hekate Propylaia while you are relying on these external sources of validation. You cannot receive Her gift while you're in polluted company.
Hekate has a secret key that opens a secret gate and She guards it carefully, even from your conscious awareness. It's the gate that nobody can walk through except you and your Twin Flame (and even to describe it that way is misleading).
Hekate Propylaia is the Gateless Gate found on the pathless path. An impenetrable Gate that isn't what it seems, with a lock and key that you can't see.
Are you willing yet to give up everything you know and find out if Love is real?