Harmonious Twin Flame Union is such a high vibration that there is serious danger in trying to access it before you're ready. And I'm not just talking about unhealed Twin Flames abusing each other (yes, that is a thing and that does happen). I'm talking about the high vibration of Twin Flame unity itself.
Have you heard the Kabbalistic tale of the four rabbis who entered the Pardes (the divine orchard)?
Basically, these four rabbis were great Kabbalists and ascended to the presence of God while still living. One rabbi looked at God and immediately died. Another rabbi looked at God went mad. Another rabbi looked at God and became destructive and arrogant. Only one, Rabbi Akiva, gazed upon God in peace and left in peace.
This is what Harmonious Union is. This is how high the stakes get when you ascend to the presence of God while in life, when you merge with your Twin Flame in Harmonious Twin Flame Union. (And even to describe it that way is misleading.)
Harmonious Twin Flame Union is sovereignty. It includes the entry of the Divine Feminine into sacred queenship, which is part of the initiation that I'm going through and some of it is insane.
Wisdom is granted with compassion, taking into account your readiness to handle it. You do not want to end up like the rabbi who dropped dead or the rabbi who went crazy. There are much more balanced ways to approach Harmonious Union. There are guardians, gates, filters and bridges that guide us and stop us along the way to protect us from ourselves.
Right now, I am unburdening and unbinding my heart on a level I have never done before. This processing work is agonizing and lonely and insane. Sometimes it is exhilarating. Always it tests my limits.
But I'd rather have it this way. I know what happens when spiritual seekers grasp for power before they are ready. I have seen people - including people who were on the ascension path but not on the Twin Flame journey - get torn apart.
At least this way I get to fall apart in an almost-but-not-really manageable way.